Well, don't know what to really blog about tonight.... my brain has been a muddle....
I have been trying hard to understand the human male brain !
I know... I know...it's uncomplicated and simple... there are fewer cross links... there are just straight pathways...black or white....red or purple....there r no grays or mauve....
Even peach is always just a fruit n not a color!!!
As someone from the opposite gender, it is this simplicity that astounds me...
I mean, to a woman...there are 1000 shades between black & white...& loads between red n purple...
No..this is not a sexist rant...Science supports this fact!
Physics has established that too many wavelengths exist between black n white & between red n purple .Therefore way too many shades exist between the colors.
Similarly, from biology we know that, more evolved the neurological system is, the more cross pathways there are in the brain helping it process more information.
Thus, proving that most female brains are more evolved .
It isn't asking a lot to hope and expect the male brain to catch up :P
No..no...we are not asking you to appreciate the different colors like mauve,burgundy or lavender....That maybe a lot to ask for ...But why not start with the simplest of things???
:)
Start by learning to cross reference from past experiences...or better , get slightly intuitive (for those unsure about what that is , it means to know what she wants without her having to ask!)
For example, you know that ghosts scare her, try cross referencing that information while planning your next date...Don't insist on watching Annabelle or going to House of Horror!!!
Instead, take her for the movie that she's been wanting to see (she hasn't been bugging you with " I sooo wanna see that movie" just so that she has to end up watching it alone! She's trying to give you a hint!)
Remember, while watching almost any romantic movie when you see her sigh or her eyes moisten up...its not just because she's happy for the girl in the film...but it could be because she wants to be that girl....
No! I don't think she actually wants you to role play SRK 4m Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Ghum or Gerard Butler from P.S I Love You!!!
But she's probably hoping for you to be more considerate n romantic than you already are...
Even on a scale of 1 to 10 ,if you think that you stand a solid 8...she probably wishes u were a 9!:)
No!
This is not over expectations!It's just being hopeful and knowing your worth...it's good for everyone involved. It uplifts and improves the game :)
Also boys, it is annoying whenever we ask you what do you want for your birthday?or what do you wanna do for the anniversary ?
Your answer is always the same..."I Dunno"!
I mean Seriously dude!Plan a little...Imagine a little!
You needn't be the
mills n boon perfect guy....but anything beyond the usual will be great!
Look, I m not trying to be biased here..
I mean if you are with someone who's asking you or demanding that you up your game but herself is not putting in efforts, it is unreasonable...
But if you are with someone who is trying...to make your day a little better , no harm in making small changes to show you care too <3
Lastly, know this:
The most important thing in your love story is not "The Happily Ever After!"
But it is the part where we can look back & say...
"He loved me & was there for me....even when I was silly, wrong & naive!"
